Idealization and envy are antipodal twins. Idealization produces colossi that bestride the psychological world and can produce
claustrophobia. Adoration mingles with envy, so that the result can be a secret desire to escape that can manifest itself
as a feeling of being so hemmed in as to want to make a jail break. A wife who over idealizes her husband may be moved to seek
affairs to liberate herself from the tyranny of her adoration. This is passing strange and also familiar.